言語具有極大的自我影響力，假若我們習慣性以消極、負面、自我否定的言語來說話，例如：我怎麼那麼笨、我真倒霉、我一定會失敗、我不行了、我怎麼老是這樣、我命不好、我沒錢、我做不到、沒人喜歡我等等。那麼以世界的一切皆是「能量共振」的原則下，我們便是在呼喚吸引不好的能量到來，在增加自己遭遇不幸與困難的機率。同時長期負面的思考方式又會讓自己更加地自卑、自責而陷入一個反覆失敗痛苦的惡性循環裡，形成負面的「自我實現預言」。因此，切記在人生中「寧說千句自己好，不說一句自己壞」。例如：我好棒、我超幸運的、我真聰明、我怎麼那麼可愛、我一定做得到等等，這是在「避讖」，是在迴避厄運、正面積極看待人生的大智慧。 Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Words have tremendous power to influence the self. If we habitually speak in pessimistic, negative, self-belittling terms—for example, “Why am I so stupid?”, “I’m so unlucky,” “I’m bound to fail,” “I can’t go on,” “Why am I always like this?”, “My fate is bad,” “I have no money,” “I can’t do it,” “Nobody likes me,” and so on—then, under the principle that everything in the world is “energy resonance,” we are calling forth and attracting negative energy, thereby increasing the odds that we will encounter misfortune and hardship. At the same time, a long-term negative way of thinking makes us more insecure and self-blaming, trapping us in a vicious cycle of repeated failure and pain and forming a negative “self-fulfilling prophecy.” Therefore, always remember in life: “Better to say a thousand good things about yourself than one bad thing.” For example: “I’m awesome,” “I’m incredibly lucky,” “I’m so smart,” “Why am I so adorable?”, “I can definitely do it,” and so on. This is “avoiding ominous words”—the great wisdom of warding off misfortune and viewing life positively and proactively.

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